"Only choose in marriage a man whom you would choose as a friend if he were a woman." ― Joseph Joubert Topic(s): Marriage More From Joseph Joubert "You will find poetry nowhere unless you bring some of it with you." "Love and fear. Everything the father of a family says must inspire one or the other." "A part of kindness consists in loving people more than they deserve." More In Marriage "I think women are natural caretakers. They take care of everybody. They take care of their husbands and their kids and their dogs, and don’t spend a lot of time just getting back and taking time out."― Reese Witherspoon "Marriage can be work, it can be difficult, it can be hard, but I think working through those times makes you stronger as a couple and as a unit."― Brian Littrell "Well I think in a marriage you have to be honest and ask yourself, you know, what is my role? What is my responsibility?"― Hillary Clinton