"Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is." ― Iris Murdoch Topic(s): Love More From Iris Murdoch "We can only learn to love by loving." "The cry of equality pulls everyone down." "People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us." More In Love "The house a woman creates is a Utopia. She can’t help it – can’t help trying to interest her nearest and dearest not in happiness itself but in the search for it."― Marguerite Duras "The character and history of each child may be a new and poetic experience to the parent, if he will let it."― Margaret Fuller "Love is the power to see similarity in the dissimilar."― Theodor Adorno