"The first breath of adultery is the freest; after it, constraints aping marriage develop." ― John Updike Topic(s): Marriage More From John Updike "Dreams come true; without that possibility, nature would not incite us to have them." "The inner spaces that a good story lets us enter are the old apartments of religion." "Each morning my characters greet me with misty faces willing, though chilled, to muster for another day’s progress through the dazzling quicksand the marsh of blank paper." More In Marriage "Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays."― Henny Youngman "I could be wrong, but I think heterosexual marriage is threatened more by heterosexuals. I don’t know why gay marriage challenges my marriage in any way."― Elizabeth Edwards "Politics doesn’t make strange bedfellows – marriage does."― Groucho Marx