"One doesn’t have to get anywhere in a marriage. It’s not a public conveyance." ― Iris Murdoch Topic(s): Marriage More From Iris Murdoch "People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us." "There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship." "In almost every marriage there is a selfish and an unselfish partner. A pattern is set up and soon becomes inflexible, of one person always making the demands and one person always giving way." More In Marriage "I don’t know what it takes to make marriage work, but I’m going to keep trying until I get it right. I haven’t given up on love or marriage."― Stephanie Mills "Who of us is mature enough for offspring before the offspring themselves arrive? The value of marriage is not that adults produce children but that children produce adults."― Peter De Vries "I didn’t want to be one of those women who wake up at 63 years old and realize they’ve missed the window of opportunity for marriage and children."― Alanis Morissette