"Whether happiness may come or not, one should try and prepare one’s self to do without it." ― George Eliot Topic(s): Happiness Tags: happiness, whether More From George Eliot "A woman’s heart must be of such a size and no larger, else it must be pressed small, like Chinese feet; her happiness is to be made as cakes are, by a fixed recipe." "We hand folks over to God’s mercy, and show none ourselves." "But what we call our despair is often only the painful eagerness of unfed hope." More In Happiness "There’s a higher form of happiness in commitment. I’m counting on it."― Claire Forlani "I see happiness as a by-product. I don’t think you can pursue happiness. I think that phrase is one of the very few mistakes the Founding Fathers made."― James Hillman "Self-pity comes so naturally to all of us. The most solid happiness can be shaken by the compassion of a fool."― Andre Maurois